Dos and Don'ts …on a first date

  • DOask lots of questions and be a good listener.
  • DOlaugh at his jokes. Compliments are good too.
  • DOmake eye contact. Shy is OK, but confident is better.
  • DOmake the first move – if you want to! He’s probably more scared than you!
  • DON'T just talk about yourself all night. Nobody else is as interested in you as you are.
  • DON'T constantly play with your phone. It’s just rude.
  • DON'T be too bossy about what you’re doing on the date. Let him have a say at least!
  • DON'T feel like you have to do everything he suggests. Politeness only goes so far.


  • Jane_Killer     Posted 24 Feb, 2015, 12:12
    Jane_Killer Don't talk too much (let him speak as well), do try to be funny or friendly, no guy likes a girl who is boring!
  • Anneleise     Posted 31 Aug, 2014, 12:45
    Anneleise always use your manners, boys don't like piggy manners from a girl ESPECIALLY ON A PUBLIC DATE!!!
  • cats     Posted 11 Nov, 2013, 10:59
    cats all of the do's are correct and all the dont's are all correct but i think you should add  smile you best but not smile too scary.
  • singer123     Posted 15 Jul, 2013, 06:11
    singer123 how old should you be intell you have your first date?
  • Arabella     Posted 02 Apr, 2013, 05:06
    Arabella And smile!
  • StephieGirl     Posted 03 Dec, 2012, 07:16
    StephieGirl Cool tips

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