Dos and Don'ts …on a first date

  • DOask lots of questions and be a good listener.
  • DOlaugh at his jokes. Compliments are good too.
  • DOmake eye contact. Shy is OK, but confident is better.
  • DOmake the first move – if you want to! He’s probably more scared than you!
  • DON'T just talk about yourself all night. Nobody else is as interested in you as you are.
  • DON'T constantly play with your phone. It’s just rude.
  • DON'T be too bossy about what you’re doing on the date. Let him have a say at least!
  • DON'T feel like you have to do everything he suggests. Politeness only goes so far.


  • ARandomTimeOfDay     Posted 28 Sep, 2015, 05:12
    ARandomTimeOfDay Ok I have a few do or and donts (more donts than dos)
    Be yourself (cheesy but I can't stress enough how important it is you dont fake intrest in your partners likes)
    Set boundaries (if they want to kiss while your uncomfortable holding hands make that known, loud and clear)
    Expect it to be like in the movies (it's not)
    Be walked over (just leave it your partner isnt to your liking)
    Date out of pity or pressure (it's like a big cake made out of salt, looks nice to people outside is bad to the people in.)
    On an end note:
    Friendzone;  person can't handle being in it and is rude to you they wernt worth it anyway.
    Peace \(╯-╰)/ 

  • Jane_Killer     Posted 24 Feb, 2015, 12:12
    Jane_Killer Don't talk too much (let him speak as well), do try to be funny or friendly, no guy likes a girl who is boring!
  • Anneleise     Posted 31 Aug, 2014, 12:45
    Anneleise always use your manners, boys don't like piggy manners from a girl ESPECIALLY ON A PUBLIC DATE!!!
  • cats     Posted 11 Nov, 2013, 10:59
    cats all of the do's are correct and all the dont's are all correct but i think you should add  smile you best but not smile too scary.
  • singer123     Posted 15 Jul, 2013, 06:11
    singer123 how old should you be intell you have your first date?
  • Arabella     Posted 02 Apr, 2013, 05:06
    Arabella And smile!

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