Dos and Don'ts …on a first date

  • DOask lots of questions and be a good listener.
  • DOlaugh at his jokes. Compliments are good too.
  • DOmake eye contact. Shy is OK, but confident is better.
  • DOmake the first move – if you want to! He’s probably more scared than you!
  • DON'T just talk about yourself all night. Nobody else is as interested in you as you are.
  • DON'T constantly play with your phone. It’s just rude.
  • DON'T be too bossy about what you’re doing on the date. Let him have a say at least!
  • DON'T feel like you have to do everything he suggests. Politeness only goes so far.


  • millyboo     Posted 16 Aug, 2016, 10:00
    millyboo Don't fart but if you do don't blame it on him
  • millyboo     Posted 16 Aug, 2016, 09:59
    millyboo Comment has been removed by author
  • Sohpee     Posted 28 Dec, 2015, 10:19
    Sohpee Don't 
    Be too picky, you'll just come off as greedy. 
    Push him, he's probably shy and wants to take it slow. 
    Be afraid! If he's a shy person, he's not going to step up. That means you have to!
    Change for him. That kinda sucks:(
    Be yourself. 
    Include him in your conversations; chances are he won't want someone who rants on and on about herself!
    Let him have a say about where the date should be, what should do, and who should pay. 
    Not to anything you don't feel comfortable with or feel pressured with.
  • Skatergirl06     Posted 04 Dec, 2015, 05:29
    Skatergirl06 Do act normal, he might see the wrong side.
  • ARandomTimeOfDay     Posted 28 Sep, 2015, 05:12
    ARandomTimeOfDay Ok I have a few do or and donts (more donts than dos)
    Be yourself (cheesy but I can't stress enough how important it is you dont fake intrest in your partners likes)
    Set boundaries (if they want to kiss while your uncomfortable holding hands make that known, loud and clear)
    Expect it to be like in the movies (it's not)
    Be walked over (just leave it your partner isnt to your liking)
    Date out of pity or pressure (it's like a big cake made out of salt, looks nice to people outside is bad to the people in.)
    On an end note:
    Friendzone;  person can't handle being in it and is rude to you they wernt worth it anyway.
    Peace \(╯-╰)/ 

  • Jane_Killer     Posted 24 Feb, 2015, 12:12
    Jane_Killer Don't talk too much (let him speak as well), do try to be funny or friendly, no guy likes a girl who is boring!

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