Dos and Don'ts …on a first date

  • DOask lots of questions and be a good listener.
  • DOlaugh at his jokes. Compliments are good too.
  • DOmake eye contact. Shy is OK, but confident is better.
  • DOmake the first move – if you want to! He’s probably more scared than you!
  • DON'T just talk about yourself all night. Nobody else is as interested in you as you are.
  • DON'T constantly play with your phone. It’s just rude.
  • DON'T be too bossy about what you’re doing on the date. Let him have a say at least!
  • DON'T feel like you have to do everything he suggests. Politeness only goes so far.


  • Chloelyn14     Posted 27 Jun, 2018, 11:23
    Chloelyn14 Do 
    ome boys are kissig and sexy
  • Sien     Posted 30 Nov, 2016, 03:57
    Sien A first date is very important for the first impression. You really need to convince your date of your cuteness and of yourself. It's him that you want but he doesn't need to know that. Make him "fight" for you. Important is that you have a really good conversation. It's logic that you did some stalking before the date. Ask him questions and surprise him with things you already know about him, he will like that. Don't be too serious, boys do not like that. Don't be shy either. Especially when it was him that asked you. You don't have any reason to be shy. Look him right into the eyes and make eye contact. Don't dare to forget your perfume. A good fragrance can change a lot. You can ask him anything you want, now is the moment. If your date annoys you or you don't like him at all, just say that it's not going to work out. Otherwise you will have to make it clear via chat and you don't want that, do you? But, when he's exactly how you expected him to be, don't forget to kiss him when you're going home. If it's not him, give him a kiss on his cheek and go search another better guy.
  • millyboo     Posted 16 Aug, 2016, 10:00
    millyboo Don't fart but if you do don't blame it on him
  • millyboo     Posted 16 Aug, 2016, 09:59
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  • Sohpee     Posted 28 Dec, 2015, 10:19
    Sohpee Don't 
    Be too picky, you'll just come off as greedy. 
    Push him, he's probably shy and wants to take it slow. 
    Be afraid! If he's a shy person, he's not going to step up. That means you have to!
    Change for him. That kinda sucks:(
    Be yourself. 
    Include him in your conversations; chances are he won't want someone who rants on and on about herself!
    Let him have a say about where the date should be, what should do, and who should pay. 
    Not to anything you don't feel comfortable with or feel pressured with.
  • Skatergirl06     Posted 04 Dec, 2015, 05:29
    Skatergirl06 Do act normal, he might see the wrong side.

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