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The Libra girl expert is here to answer any questions you might have in regards to your GFs and BFs. Whether it’s how to deal with a huge fight you’ve had with your BFF or how to tell your crush that you like him...ask away! Questions can be asked anonymously so ask whatever is on your mind – and remember no question is stupid! Before submitting your question check out the Frequently Asked Questions section to see if your question has already been answered.

 
 
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  • Jera
      Make a comment Posted 18 Apr, 2018, 09:06
    Jera There is this boy I like named Zach and we started talking and I started to fall in love. Then he asked me out and i said yes. Then one day I told him I had trust issues and he asked me if I trusted him and I said "for the most part I do" then he took me out of his bio and now he counts me as one of the guys, he doesn't give me good morning text and he doesn't call me baby.. he said he likes me but he is mad. this has been going on for about a week and I hate it. cause I put my life on pause for him. I wanted to say I was in love with him but idk anymore. and I can't get over him. and I want this to work out. I think about him every second of the day. I cry over him because I truly feel like I am in love. Help me please!!
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Gosh Jera, that's a sad story. It sounds like he has a couple of issues as he's punishing you for being honest. There's something about not being completely trusted that he finds very uncomfortable - because it seems like you've hit a nerve. The only way to bring this situation to a close - one way or the other - is to talk to him. It sounds like he's not so keen to do that just now, but let him know you'd like to have a conversation - just to clear things up. Explain to him that your trust issue isn't about him specifically, but an issue generally and that you're working on it (I assume that you are?) and gently ask him why he's so uncomfortable with that. You'll intuitively know from how this conversation pans out as to whether you have a future together or if it's time to let it go. Good luck - I hope you get the response you're after! LGx
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  • Anonymous user
      Make a comment Posted 04 Apr, 2018, 09:08
    Anonymous user I'm going overseas on a school trip next month and a bunch of my friends, my crush, my dad and some other parents are going. Typically I'm fairly obvious around my crush and show how I feel even though he doesn't feel the same way as far as I know. This worries me because I feel like I'll act rather awkwardly around him due to my dad going on the trip too. So I'm not sure whether to act how I usually do and hope my dad doesn't notice or try to hide how I feel about my crush
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Hi Anon, you sound like the kind of girl who wears who heart on her sleeve - meaning you can't help but show people how you feel! It's not a bad trait at all. If you are that type of girl, then trying to modify you're behaviour or changing how you'd normally act probably won't work. My advice is to be aware your Dad is there, and that alone should help how obvious or discreet you think you need to be around your crush. However, the one thing I'd say is don't let it get in the way of this amazing opportunity - just relax, be yourself and have faith that things will turn out fine! Good luck, LGx
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  • Anonymous user
      Make a comment Posted 04 Apr, 2018, 09:00
    Anonymous user I'm nearly 18 and I've liked one of my guy friends for a little over two years now and I'm tempted to say I'm in love with him (not that I would say that to him anytime soon). I told him how I liked him a little over 6 months ago now and he said that he didn't want to ruin our friendship or put time into a relationship. He never specifically said how he felt about me though, pretty sure he doesn't like me but I can't help wondering about what if he does like me and simply doesn't want to date at this stage. I've been trying to move on and get over him but it has been a real struggle for me. I keep thinking about all the what-ifs because I really do like him and I want to be with him. I'd like some advice as to what to do about the whole situation
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Gee Anon - that's tricky, isn't it? To be honest, I think he made himself clear six months ago, and I suspect he knows you still like him romantically. I think he does like you - he's you're friend! - but I"m not sure he feels that it's more than that :( If you want closure, you could ask if he can ever imagine the two of you dating at some stage in the future. By making it the future, it's hypothetical so safe. If he says no, then you can be sure he sees you as a friend only, if he says maybe or yes, well, then maybe there is a possibility. He sounds like a nice guy and tried to let you down gently last time, so if he does say maybe - see if you can judge if that really is a maybe or a soft no. Good luck - I hope you get the answer you want. LGx
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  • Kakashi27
      Make a comment Posted 04 Apr, 2018, 08:30
    Kakashi27 Hey I just want someone to tell me how they see what I've been experiencing in their perspective. And maybe an advice on what I should do or how I should continue... basically like a diary that replies I guess�� Here it goes... It's the start of summer vacation here for me and I only have 1 more week to see this guy I like and do something about my feelings until next school year.. Through out the year he's given me stuff to overthink. I first noticed him because of his beautiful singing voice. He would look at me from across the room, hang out with my friends and initiate study sessions with me. He would say sorry shyly when he thinks he's not doing his best in our group projects and thank me for all my efforts. He's made a few comments about wanting to stay longer or sleeping over at my house just 'cause he didnt have anything else to do. Freeing his schedule just to come hang with me and my guy friends. Giving heart reactions on my social media updates. And I want to believe that he likes me but I'm scared that I only keep seeing this actions because I want to think that he likes me. He was fairly popular with girls (and gays) at school, and he told me it annoyed him. He didn't like it when they confessed. He wanted to be the one to confess to someone he liked. And that made me scared to tell MY feelings. I want to stop liking him tbh. But that wasn't gonna happen until I hear a rejection from him. But at the same time I didn't want to lose the little things we did that probably meant more to me than him. I'm turning 18 in May and I invited him along with a few of my friends. I hope I clear this stuff out before that time. I want to be able to look at him in the eye without looking like I'm always hiding something. He treats me a little bit differently too. To other girls he doesn't seem to care much how he acted but to me it was always awkward at first and we can barely hold eye contact unless no one else was around. He's a nice person too, which is probably why he's nice to me. But that's how I see it... I want to know what other people think about this. I'm not planning on confessing after he opened up to me about the subject anyways... I just want to understand his actions. Thank you!!
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Hi Kakashi27, from what you've said, I wonder if he knows you like him but is trying to avoid the declaration? As you say, if he's has a few, he may find it uncomfortable and detrimental to friendships. That aside, I always think it's better to show someone you like them - and it sounds like you already doing that to some degree. Just talk to him as much as you can, find out everything about him - what music he likes, his family, his hopes and ambitions for the future, what he believes happiness is, what his ideal partner would be like - all that stuff! Not only does it show him you're interested in him as a person, but it also uncovers the points of connection. It will help both of you determine if you're destined to be great friends or if there is a spark of romance that you both want to pursue. I know there's not much time, but give it your best shot before school breaks up! Good luck, LGx
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  • Casual_Maggie
      Make a comment Posted 04 Apr, 2018, 12:26
    Casual_Maggie I like my old crush's bestfriend. let's call my crush C .I'm homeschooled and so are they, we have a mutual science class every week (for homeschoolers) and that's the only time I see C. we talk on snapchat a lot, and sometimes I use the filters and he calls the snaps cute. I think he likes me but. there is a problem. I'm 13 and he's 15.... He also lives like 40 minutes away. I'm now good friends with my old crush and sometimes he teases me about C. Thats a sign right? I know he might be too old for me but if i'm 33 and he's 35 its nothing. I think i'm just denying it so it doesn't become a problem. What do I do?
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Hi there Casual_Maggie, you are absolutely right - as you get older and more mature, the age gap feels a lot less. And yes, it does sound like he likes you and the fact you're snap chatting is fantastic - it means you're talking and getting to know each other and obviously enjoy each others company. My advice is just carry on as you are - chatting and having fun and maybe getting a few butterflies! There is the obstacle of him being 40 minutes away, but in some ways, it also makes the relationship 'safe' in terms of any physical expectations (even holding hands or hugging) which isn't always a bad thing! So just be in the moment, enjoy what's happening and see where it goes. Good luck! LGx
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  • DeletedProfile
      Make a comment Posted 26 Mar, 2018, 05:41
    DeletedProfile how can i become a libra girl expert
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Hi there iarizona71, thanks for your messages. I've actually just removed a couple of your posts as I'm afraid you can't include personal contact details - we can't guarantee your safety or that of other site users so we just have to have a rule to not share personal information. I love your enthusiasm and desire to help others, but I'm afraid there isn't an opportunity to become an expert here. Are you still at school? Can I suggest you look at studying psychology when you finish and that should take you into a job where you can help others with their problems - it's a great thing to do and I wish you the best for it! LGx
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  • 12yrold22
      Make a comment Posted 14 Mar, 2018, 10:20
    12yrold22 does it hurt getting your period?
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Hi 12yrold22 - I tried to move your question over to LibraGirl Nurse but I see it didn't go. Getting your period shouldn't hurt but for a professional response, pop on over to the LGNurse on the periods section and she'll get back to you pronto! LGx
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  • Anonymous user
      Make a comment Posted 08 Mar, 2018, 06:24
    Anonymous user How can you tell is someone is a playboy?
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Hi anon, that's a great question! Without evidence, it can be hard to know. Some guys are just out-and-out super friendly with all girls - even a bit flirty - and yet, would never cross the line. Other guys are quiet and seem shy - and yet are players. However, having said that, female intuition is usually pretty good - so without being paranoid, if you think a guy is a playboy, you're probably right! I hope that helps. LGx
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  • Hazel 1
      Make a comment Posted 26 Feb, 2018, 01:34
    Hazel 1 So I have this really big problem where my best friend has fallen deeply in love with my older brother - who already has a girlfriend who he is in a bit of a rocky relationship with, if you know what I mean... There was this party at Theon's house and her parents were out so there was alcohol! And lets just say that my friend and my brother got slightly over-excited. So maybe he actually likes her too, or the alcohol went to his head, also his girlfriend does not know about this. So I have two problems. 1) My friend keeps telling me things I do not want to know about my brother. 2) I really like my brother's girlfriend so I don't want to tell her, but I don't think that my brother's going to tell her either!! Help me please!
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Hello, again Hazel 1! So, firstly, I'd be telling your bestie to hold with the details. Just say you feel uncomfortable with the whole situation (I assume she knows your brother has a GF?) and would rather she didn't keep sharing. As for your brother, well, I think it would be good to have a chat with him about how you feel because in truth, he caused this!! It could be that he doesn't intend staying with his GF - and if that is the case, he needs to rip it off like a band-aid and tell her!! Dragging it one isn't helping. I get you like her, but it's really up to your brother. If he intends staying with her, then perhaps he does want to tell about what happened and apologise deeply for his lapse. But Hazel 1, you do have one last option - just ask them both to keep you out of it!! LGx
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  • Hazel 1
      Make a comment Posted 26 Feb, 2018, 01:25
    Hazel 1 Excuses to talk to someone I maybe have a crush on who sits in front of me in class??
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Hiya Hazel 1 - I'm not sure if all these questions were for me or maybe you meant to post some on the Forum? I've also sent a couple over to LibraGirl Nurse so keep an eye out for the answers to those. Is this the same guy you think gave you the red chocolate heart? Either way, I reckon asking someone about what they're interested in or what they've been doing is a good way of showing them you want to get to know them. So ask what he did on the weekend, what sport he likes, what TV, music, movies, series. Ask about his family - who he lives with, where they go for holidays, what they do on weekends, etc. Just keep it casual and chatty and, hopefully, he'll start asking about you too! Good luck - although I'm so sure you've got this!! LGx
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  • Hazel 1
      Make a comment Posted 26 Feb, 2018, 01:18
    Hazel 1 Hi, I desperately need some advice because everyone I know keeps giving me the same advice! So at my school, in the week before half term, a tutor group were doing this thing for Valentine's Day to raise money for a charity. You could buy someone a small bag of heart chocolate with a message on the label for £1. You could send a pink one for a friend and a red one for love. My friends and I all sent each other friend ones, so I got that one, but I also got a love one. (they were delivered in tutor by the people who were doing this to raise the money) On the label, the person who sent it had written: 'From your secret love xxx'. There is someone who me and my mum are certain that it is, and after thinking about it lots and lots and making lots of pro-con lists, I have concluded that I definitely like this person a lot. It's definitely NOT from my friends as a prank because I can tell when they are being honest with me, and for other reasons as well. This person is the only person in the school who actually acts really respectfully towards me, and he was the only person he gave a Christmas Card to. It had a really nice message in it too. I really want proof that it was him, but he os only in two or three of my classes and I don't know what to say. People have told me to just casually bring up Valentine's Day and that I got chocolates, and see what his reaction is. This is all very good but HOW do I do this?? I'm a very shy person and if it wasn't;t him I don't want to embarrass myself, I just want to know who it was and if he is going to ask me out, and I want him to ask me out! So what are the exact things that I do to get to the bottom of this and sort it out, and what are the exact words that I say? Please help me and quick!!
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Hi there Hazel 1, do you have any of the red chocolate hearts left? Or can you buy one? I'd suggest returning the gesture - even if you just passing him in the corridor (although better if there aren't tones of people about). Just pass him one red chocolate heart. If he was the sender (and it sounds like you're almost certain he is!), it'll indicate to him that you know it's him and that you like him as well. If by some chance it wasn't him, it will still send the same message without having to say anything. Once you've passed him a heart, make sure you smile and are friendly and try and have more conversation with him - but your feeling will be clear! Good luck! LGx
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  • jhart7979
      Make a comment Posted 26 Feb, 2018, 01:09
    jhart7979 I'm in yr 9 and I have a huge crush!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on this boy at school that i have liked for the whole of last yr and this yr. And like all the time I can't stop thinking about them and stuff. All my friends say that i should ask him out and stuff, and I really want to ask him out but i don't know how to ask him out like what to like or like what to do!!!!!!!?????????????????? plez help Ohh and in class and stuff he sends hints to me likes me. staring at me, smiling, random convo etc. But please help i don't know how to ask him out
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Hi there jhart7979, well that's exciting!! Sounds like he's giving all the right indications so I'm sure if you ask him out, you'll get a good response! A good way to take the pressure off is to organise going to the movies or the pool or whatever with a few friends - and ask him along. So you can say 'Hey (crush), a few of us are going to the movies/pool this Saturday afternoon - wanna come?' You can then spend a bit of time together, but with others, it can make it a bit easier. If that goes well, you can say 'That was fun - let's do it again - wanna see a movie next week?' and then it can just be the two of you. Good luck! (Although I suspect you don't need it!!!) LGx
    PS I see you posted twice - I assume by mistake as the question was pretty much the same - so just answered one. :)
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  • ClassyYoutubeTrash
      Make a comment Posted 15 Feb, 2018, 02:56
    ClassyYoutubeTrash So i need quick help. I have posted a message about this but i think i might ask here to. So on the 23 of feb i get to go to a waterpark but i will have my period and i rly wanna go... I cant wear tampons....so can i wear pads and everytime it gets wet i will change it....btw i will be fully submerged in water
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Hi there ClassyYoutubeTrash - that's tricky! Pads contain something called Super Absorbent Polymers - and they are, well, super absorbent! They lock away moisture but when submerged, will 'fill up' and become quite bulky. Once they're full, they won't be able to absorb anything else - so not sure that plan is going to work. Can you give tampons another go? The main reason girls have difficulty is that they're nervous and tense their pelvic floor muscle making it extremely difficult to insert a tampon!! Try and relax - use a water-based lubricant like KY jelly - and see how you go. Another tip is to insert your finger first - so you know where the tampon is going and what angle you should be heading in. Try Libra's applicator tampon as they make getting it into the right spot easier for first-timers. If you absolutely can't use a tampon, maybe a liner and a snug pair of black bike shorts might be a better option? Still risky though.... Good luck! LGx
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  • Jera
      Make a comment Posted 05 Feb, 2018, 08:14
    Jera Ok, so this is my last letter about a boy. His name is Ben, and I have liked him for some time now we flirt so much, he always makes jokes. I could say my leg itches and he would say you want me to get it for you. But I never really thought anything of it. So I told my friend Reagan how I felt. Yesterday she has the audacity to walk up to him, luckily the bell rang before she could say anything. Later that day Ben texted her asking her what she was going to say before the bell rang. Reagan told him that someone in our Spanish class liked him. Of course, he was curious and asked who it was, So she told him it was me. So today I walk into class and I heard someone call my name, it was Ben he asked me why I didn't tell him. At the end of the day, I was walking with Reagan to the buses and she sees Ben and she yells his name. He walks over to us, as Im telling him that we are okay. Ben came up and Reagan says i will talk to him for you. So i left to make my bus
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    Hey Jera, sounds like your friend Reagan may have done you a favour! Although it can suddenly feel very awkward when someone knows you like them, in this case, I think Ben is really pleased! If you get a chance, just let him know you didn't ask Reagan to tell him and that you hadn't said anything as you weren't sure how he felt. Try not to run away when he wants to talk to you - yes, right now it seems super embarrassing - but it sounds like he feels very comfortable - lucky you!! Just hang in there and talk to him and eventually you too will  be comfortable - and you can take it from there!! Good luck, LGx
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  • Natalie360
      Make a comment Posted 23 Jan, 2018, 01:27
    Natalie360 So there is this boy that always compliments me and talks to me. Everyone says that he is a fu*kboy and I just don’t know what to believe
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Hi there Natalie360, I'd suggest observing how he treats other girls - the same or different? If he compliments quite a few other girls then sorry to say, although I'm sure he likes you, it doesn't look like you've been singled out for his attention. However, if this does seem like exclusive treatment for you, then spend time with him when you can, talking. Get to know him and see if you have a connection. Better to take it slow than jump in and then realise you don't like him as much as you thought you did! Good luck, LGx
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  • Jera
      1 comment Posted 17 Jan, 2018, 02:55
    Jera Hey, so I am a sophomore in high school. And so far, I have been having a good year. If you have seen my previous letters, I don't really have the best of luck with relationships. So like always... There is this boy that I like, but he is like a fuc*boy he is very attractive and funny and he is a great person to be around if you want to have fun. But recently he has been walking with this one girl and he has his arm around her, and he isn't dating her so that's irritating asf. He kinda plays the bad boy card, he smokes weed and does that crazy stuff, but that doesn't bother, I kinda like that bad boy stuff. But getting back to the real reason I am here. He always stares at me and we talk all the time he also smiles at me all the time, we crack jokes together and it feels like when I'm getting closer, something just pull him farther away from me. We talk all the time on social media. I know that if I start to really like him, like hardcore that he would play me or it would slap me in my face. How do I know he is not treating me like those others girls he has messed with in the past. And Is just a friendship or could this be real!! But knowing me this is another player or another FAIL!!!
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Hi there Jera, I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news but, I don't think this guy sounds like BF material at all. All the reasons you're attracted to him - his flirting (staring), confidence and intimacy with other girls, bad-boy attitude - are exactly the same reasons he wouldn't be a great bf. It's unrealistic to think those behaviours will suddenly stop. I suspect he treats most girls with a degree of intimacy - which we all love as it makes us feel special - but you're all feeling special! I'd be inclined to enjoy his company as a friend and unless he starts to display really clear interest in being in an exclusive relationship with you, friend-zone him!! Hang in there - you will someone who you'll have a genuine and mutual connection with - I just don't think it's this guy. LGx
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  • DeletedProfile
      Make a comment Posted 17 Jan, 2018, 02:47
    DeletedProfile I have been texting this boy I like for 2 months everyday accept like only two days in a row but constantly. When I text him he tells me good luck on things like on an dance concert and he says that he’s sorry that I’m sick. One day I was at my friends party and she sent him an picture of me and her and the next day he texted me Wowwwww I feel so bad that I couldn’t text u back...so do he like me as more or just an friend?? Also my friend was like you never have talked about an boy this much so....do he like me?
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Hi there DeletedProfile, (I hope you are still there!!) Certainly sounds like he does like you! I wouldn't read too much into him not texting for a couple of days - he may just have been busy with other stuff - and he apologised, so I think he's sincere. He's taken a real interest in you - like your dance concert - which is a great start to any relationship - friendship or romance. I think the best thing is to keep the conversation going. I'm assuming you're also taking an interest in what he's doing. Just use the time to find out more about him - what music he likes, TV, sport, music - jus everything! The more you chat, the clearer it will become that your relationship will be destined to be friends - or something more! Good luck - although from what you've said, I'm not sure you need it!!! LGx
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  • jhart7979
      Make a comment Posted 04 Jan, 2018, 04:03
    jhart7979 there is this boy that i have a major crush on for a yr and a bit at school and it feels like he sends signals sometimes like staring at me, making random convo, smiling and more and his friends say that he likes me but then he says that he doesn't like me but then he doesn't say that to my face but then there is signals and more and then i thought that over the holidays i would try to get over him cause my friends put an idea on to me that he doesn't like me so i thought that when i get back to school that if i still like him i would try to ask him out or somthing and if not then i would like try to forget about boys but then im not to sure about it plez give me your openon on my situation
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Hi there jhart7979! Gosh, boys can be confusing!! From what you've said, I agree that he does like you. But I suspect he's just not ready to take it any further. Things may have changed over the holidays, but rather than ask him out, maybe try and spend more time talking to him so he feels more comfortable. Just be friendly and interested in him - ask lots of questions and get to know him more. Find out about what he got up to over the holidays, share what you did - just get talking!! As this progresses, you'll just know if he just wants to be friends or if he wants to step it up a bit or if he just needs a bit more time. Good luck - I hope it goes the way you want!! LGx
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  • Deep_Iris
      Make a comment Posted 04 Jan, 2018, 03:56
    Deep_Iris So, There's this guy at my school who I actually really like. All I know about him is his name. I've spoken to him like twice and it was like a 30 second conversation. I don't think he has instagram or anything like that so I can talk to him. So my best friends BF (lets call him "J") is friends with my crush and I asked J what my crushes name was. J told me and then started freaking out asking if I likes him. I told J I didn't. J's my only way of finding out more about him but I'm worried that if I ask him my chances will be ruined with my crush I have no experience with guys (except that one time when I was 4 and I got married) and I don't get to see him for another 4 weeks (school holidays) Also sorry if this is a bit confusing :D
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Hi Deep_Iris, so the fact he's at your school, and you know his name is a good start. If you see him around, just say 'Hi'. You know, the kind of 'hi' that doesn't even expect an answer. Smile and look him in the eye - keep walking. Once this becomes comfortable, extend it to a 'how are you?' - just keep stepping it up, bit by bit, as you feel confident and hopefully you're getting the right vibe back from him. The aim is to get to a point where you can have a conversation. Ask him lots of questions - what class he's just had, what sport he likes, what he did on the weekend - it gives you the chance to get to know him better and also lets him know you're interested in him as a person. Even if after this, you decide your not romantically interested, you'll have made anew friend and there's no downside to that! Good luck! LGx
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  • Anonymous user
      Make a comment Posted 26 Dec, 2017, 01:07
    Anonymous user There is this boy that I really like, and all of my friends and family say that he likes me too. We text sometimes, and he almost always puts a smiley face at the end of his messages. At a recent concert at my school my family said that he was looking at me the whole time, so much that they started giggling to each other! He always says hi to me, smiles whenever we see each other and sometimes we walk to and from classes together and talk, and have a good time. However recently he left me on read when I had asked him if he wanted to join me at the gym sometime and he kinda seems like he doesn't really try to continue the conversation in text. In person though he is a really sweet, kind, funny, fun and overall an amazing person to be around. I just really want to know how he feels about me so that I can decide how to continue with the relationship we have right now. I want to just be friends at least, and then maybe move on to something more, but I'm not sure how he feels.
  • Libra Girl Expert
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    Hi anon, from everything you've said, I'm pretty sure he likes you! I wonder if the two things you mention - the gym and not being so responsive to text - is reading too much into it? May he was just busy or distracted by family or homework or something else. I think it might be that because you say he's the same in person. If he were also a bit stand-offish in person, then maybe the idea of getting close had become a bit awkward for him - which is not unusual - but doesn't seem to be the case in this situation. Just use the time you have with him to get to know him more - ask about what music he likes, TV, movies, sport - what he does on his weekends, about his family and interests. Not only will it bring you closer but it also lets him know you're interested in him as a person - friend or more! Your intuition will help you work out which as you get to know him more. Good luck! LGx
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