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  • iNellie
    2 comments Posted 03 Sep, 2012, 01:21
    INELLIE I am 15 years old and i live with my mom as my parents have been divorced since i was like 1. My mom has this rule of "No boyfriends/ guy friends until after university". At school i do this thing called duke of Edinburgh and we have to volunteer somewhere so i work at a rest home. About 4 months ago a guy a year older than me started working there too. We sometimes talk and when he smiles at me...oh..well that's not the point. I REALLY like him but im not sure i i should continue to. I sort of hinted my mom that there might be a "person of interest" but she said "Don't even think about liking him!" I really don't know what to do, it is that age too where all the hormones come in! But when he is around me i can't help but be happy and smile all the time, in fact he is the only "thing" that makes me smile recently. Should i listen to mom? What should i do?!?! PLEASE HELP ME! xx
  • Libra Girl Expert
    Gosh - I can see why you're so torn. This is a really tricky situation as you're natural attraction is in direct conflict with your mum's rules. So - I think you only have two real options, either to ignore this guy - and that sounds like it's going to be impossible, or have a chat to your mum. Do you think if you explained to her that you met via the Duke of Ed at the home that it might help? Other people there must know him. If you assure her that you're just pals and that you promise he won't become a distraction to your school work, do you think she might understand? I really don't think you should go behind her back - that's not an option. And perhaps tell her that as well - that you don't want to disobey her. Good luck! LGx
  • iNellie
    Posted 04 Sep, 2012, 05:40
    iNellie Thank you so much!  I think i will go slow and just make sure that i really actually like him and if he likes me back. I don't want to go behind moms wouldn't feel right and that wasn't one of my options really... I did try talkin to mom but she was sort of against it, i don't really know. First i willl just make sure that my feeling are pure. This is the first time i actually like someone and i never really disobeyed mom before, so she does trust me but i don't know if it is enough to let me go out with someone. I see him only once a week but two weeks ago i did manage to get his number, but i don't know how to talk to him :P anyway. Thank you so much!
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    Posted 04 Sep, 2012, 03:04
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