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  • mynx10
    Posted 16 Jul, 2017, 02:35
    MYNX10 I like one of my best guy friends and it's really starting to get to me. I'm confused and I really don't know what to do. I liked him at the end of last year and he found out which caused a bit of an awkward strain on our friendship. We've been back to normal this year but I like him again and it's really stressing me out. I want to be more than friends and I want to talk to him about it but I'm scared of making our friendship awkward again. I could casually ask if he could ever see us dating in the future but I just don't think that's the right way to bring it up. I've always been a little scared of rejection but never this scared considering of all the guys I've liked, he's the one I've been closest too. I could just use a little advice
  • Libra Girl Expert
    Hi there mynx10, I like the approach of the future as I think it's pretty risk free, but if you'd rather not, that's fine too! The issue of revealing your feelings is that he may not feel the same way - which kinda sounds like what happened at the end of last year. Has his behaviour indicated that anything has changed since then? If so, then maybe it's not so risky to bring it up. You could use last year as your startiing point, along the lines of 'hey, remember last year when you found out I liked you more than a friend, just wondering how you're feeling about that now?' Again, this is fairly risk free as you can get his response before you say how you're feeling and hopefully avoid any awkwardness if it's not the same. As for rejection, I'm afraid that's a risk we all take when we put ourselves out there - but hopefully you'll get the response you're after. Just try annd 'read' the situation as best you can. Good luck! LGx 
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