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  • I'm awkward
    Posted 09 Jan, 2019, 01:50
    I'M AWKWARD So I'm not gonna be describing the guy because you're probably fed up with reading all those mushy things us girls write. I'll try to make this brief. I messed up badly. He liked me first, I got scared of commitment and I drifted apart and ignored him. I told him hurtful things and went as far as not replying to him when he asked me a question. We were so close. I did it so that he would stop liking me because I knew I wasn't ready. He eventually stopped trying and I realized my mistake way too late. I started falling harder the more I ignored him and I realized how much I needed him and he was always there no matter what. He finally gave up. I tried to talk to him but he started doing the same things I did to him. He looked really hurt before. I eventually told him that I like him and he rejected me. So first I rejected him and he rejected me after. This is messed up and all my fault. I'm on break right now and it hurts that I think about him every day even when I don't see him. I don't know what to do now. I tried messaging him and he isn't responding like how he used to. He's not making jokes anymore, he's way too formal. My friends told me to give up because I messed up in the first place. They were angry with my behavior but I honestly can't control my stupidity. I'm not even brave enough to look him in the eyes even though I know he still stares. He probably stopped that too actually. It's so hard talking to him now because he is ignoring me now. I think I'm going into depression. What do I do?
  • Libra Girl Expert
    Oh dear, I'm awkward! This sounds like it got way out of hand. The way I see it, you need to be brave and organise a time to talk to him - face to face. I know he's been ignoring you, but let him know you have something important to discuss - just persist. When you do get the opportunity to talk, the first thing you must do is apologise and take responsibility for this very unfortunate situation. You clearly both like each other and then yes, you messed up. Be honest and sincere - tell him you miss how you guys used to be and ask if he's prepared to forgive you. Know that he may not, but at least you'll know you tried. Good luck - I hope things do go back to how they were. LGx
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